May 11, 2007

  • I really need to e-mail all of my pictures to Walgreens, so I can get them on discs...I haven't used my camera much because all of my cards are full (I found the missing card-yay!).  I don't want to clear my cards until I have the pics saved on discs...

    We took the boys to the beach yesterday.  I think we'll be spending a lot of time at the beach this summer--it's so relaxing and fun.  Lion, our two-year old, first runs around and tests all the boundaries, but he soon settles in to digging in the sand and playing in ankle-deep water (he's a little skittish with the water--a good thing!).  Sailor made a little friend and they followed Lamb around in the water, shooting him with a water gun, etc.  At this beach, the water is shallow (knee-deep or less) for a very long stretch, which is nice, but we still don't let them get too far away from us.  Pilot watched his brothers play, then took a little nap.  Oh--we left our house without towels!  My dh and I both thought the other had the towels...so, we made a quick stop at a dollar store. 

    After a couple of hours of playing, we saw the dark clouds rolling in and we rinsed everyone off, packed up, and headed home.  We made one detour to look at some land, but it's on the bay and thinking about living so close to the water makes me paranoid.  In a way, it would be perfect because my boys and dh could fish as much as they wanted, but I would drive everyone crazy with the fear of one of my little ones somehow getting out of the house and falling into the water.  Hurricanes could be an issue...

    On my dh's party invitation, I didn't add an RSVP.  I've always included RSVP's on invitations, but people don't RSVP any more!!  So, I'm testing a theory this time--I'm going to see how many people RSVP without being asked, LOL.  I'll bet it's the same people who would have RSVP'd anyways!!

May 9, 2007

  • I'm not Martha...I'm not even Sandra Lee...

    The party planner in me wanted to do cool, themed invitations for my dh's birthday--but I am learning to give up some of the detailed things I like to do when I host something.  I am not Martha.  I have four children, three under four years old.  It is in my best interest to save most of my energy and time for the actual party!  LOL  (I'll need to repeat this to myself soon!).
     
    So, it's simple and to the point:
    Friendships are one of the few things that improve with age.
    The family and friends of
    D- S-
    invite you to celebrate his
    40th birthday
    and a lifetime of good friendship
    on Saturday, May 26, 2007
     
    The address was next and I linked a map at the bottom.  We are going to have a shrimp/crawfish boil, I am renting a port-o-pot (LOL--we're having this party at my parent's beach house and an extra pot will be so useful!), and I am hoping that, after two failed attempts, I can find at least a DJ to play some music from back-in-the-day (yes, the 80's)! 

May 8, 2007

  • Moi? A published writer?! LOL

    Remember the memories I wrote about my grandmother?  I sent a copy to MrsCatherine in March, but did not hear back and thought that maybe it wasn't appropriate for the Making It Home magazine.  Well, I lay down to nurse my baby and read my new issue of MIH mag and was pleasantly surprised to find my words published!!  Of course, the magazine's next issue will be it's last...   I'm holding out hope that they'll bring it back one day!

     

     

May 5, 2007

  • Who do you think of when you hear the phrase, "Godly man"?  I tend to equate Godly with holy and saintly.  I think of the Pope, I think of Mother Teresa (a Godly woman?  Or is this oxymoronic?!). 

     I truly do not consider any married man to be Godly.  A follower of God?  Yes.  God-fearing?  Yes.  But Godly...striving to be like God...that encompasses so much more than a married man can truly give, it sounds hypocritical. 

     

     

May 4, 2007

May 3, 2007

  • Home Sweet Home

    I really liked this quote, from purpleamethyst76 's xanga (I'm enjoying browsing her blog!):

    "Find yourself a home, make it the seat
    of your affections, respect it,
    cultivate it, appreciate it.  For in the spirit
    of home do you find all that is good and
    decent in life.  Homes build communities,
    communities make nations, nations of
    home-loving people make civilization!"
    (Sam Campbell)

    I am spending a lot of time at home!  Our two-year old is acting...well, two!  LOL  He's having tantrums almost everywhere we go.  At first, I did not know how to respond~Lamb and Sailor didn't go through this phase.  Also, since I usually have the baby in my arms while my little Lion is "roaring", it takes several minutes for me to get him under control.  So, we are going to be homebound for a while.  I might try park day, but we're not going to any organized events any time soon, LOL.  At least, not without my dh!

    But this is good.  I need to be home--there are many things that I need to work on.  While I enjoy getting out and about several times a week, it's not conducive to naptime and routines.

    Today, I gave away my baby carrier and bouncy.  A lady was asking for baby items on freecycle~her friend, who had her baby today, does not have any baby stuff.  I'm also trying to find the extra parts to my stroller and swing~she's going to pick those up later.  I knew what I was doing, but I gave her the carrier that our baby has been using--I should have bought a new carseat for Pilot before I gave his away!  Well, I knew that we wouldn't be going anywhere today, and I can run and buy one tonight when my dh is home from work.

    And now, I'm off to straighten the kitchen and read my last Child magazine while my babies nap.

May 2, 2007

  • I'm still working on laundry!  I just want to be finished.

    Other jobs on my list for today:

    Groceries

    Pick up clothes from cleaners

    Party-planning (dh's 40th)

    Well, those are the things that are the most important for today...I'm not going to think about anything else until we get back from the grocery store!

May 1, 2007

  • We spent a few days at the beach~I didn't want to come home!    We had a great daily routine:  hotel breakfast, drive to beach, play, eat lunch, play...then back to the hotel, straight to the pool, more playing...shower and find a restaurant for supper.  By the time we got back to the hotel, we were ready to sleep!  It was slow paced.  And lazy.  It was too short, LOL!

    So now, I am working on laundry.  I am trying to get all of our laundry completed today and everything unpacked/rinsed off, etc.  I know me, and if I don't do it now, it might not happen for a few days!!

    I've been slacking on both of my blogs recently.  I want to write, but I'm finding that once I get to the computer, after I've skimmed all my subscriptions and other sites I like to read, I don't have enough time to blog.  My baby is ready to nurse or the toddlers are bickering or my oldest is taking advantage of my inattention (not finishing schoolwork, etc.).

    And my baby is in that fun, sweet stage~he looks at me constantly!  His little eyes light up and he's smiling at me, flirting and cooing at me...I just can't choose the computer over him, LOL!  I am going to try to get the three little guys' naps in sync, then have my blog-time. 

April 19, 2007

  • When was the last time you...

    1. kissed someone? A few moments ago--I kissed my little Lion good-night.

    2. drank coffee? Tonight!  And it was some strong cappucino, LOL!

    3. read a book? Two nights ago--I read Johanna Lindsey's latest romance (yes, I'm one of those...)

    4. cursed? Ummm...earlier today?  This is my dirty little secret...Rebecca or Jena~did I curse tonight? 

    5. had a nightmare? I can't remember...

    6. checked your email? A few minutes ago...

    7. had a crush? My most recent crush is my baby!

    8. drove a car? Tonight.

    9. rode a roller coaster?  About seven years ago.  I don't know if I'll ever ride one again, though--to much jerking, etc.

    10. took a nap? Some time last week.

    11. went to the movies? I think the last movie I went to was A Night at the Museum, but I'm not sure.

    12. drank alcohol? Tonight--a nice Italian margarita with a shot of amaretto alongside.

    13. went to a party? Easter Sunday 

    14. said “I love you"? A few moments ago to my dh and Lion

    15. cooked a meal? I don't think I've "cooked" since Sunday, LOL!  (Disclaimer:  I kind of take it easy when my dh works nights!)

    16. exercised? If dancing with my boys counts, Tuesday!

    **I copied this from Enjoy the Journey.

April 17, 2007

  • An e-mail I received today...

    By Douglas W. Phillips
    April 17, 2007

    Today, the nation mourns the senseless murder of thirty-two men and women who were gunned down in cold blood. The slaughter of students at Virginia Tech constitutes the largest campus killing spree in American history. The murderer was a fellow student, twenty-three-year-old Cho Seung-hui of South Korea. Though little is currently known of his motive behind the murders, it is clear that his plan was calculated and carefully executed. The assault was premeditated and thorough. Doctors report that not a single victim had fewer than three bullet wounds.

    Thousands will be deeply affected, probably for the rest of their lives. The most serious pains belong to the mothers, fathers, and sisters and brothers of the murdered victims. What shall we say to them? What are we to learn from these events?

    First, we must remember the answer to the question “why?”

    When people ask: “Why does God allow bad things to happen to good people?” or “How can such a terrible thing happen?”, we must point them to the fundamentals. First, all of us deserve death and all of us will die. The only question is when will we die, and what will be the state of our eternal soul at that time. Every breath is a gift of God. None of us deserve it. We have no rights or demands we can make to our Creator. In fact, apart from Christ, we stand condemned to a fate far worse than physical death — eternal punishment. And there is a reason for all of this. God is God, and we are His creation. Understanding the distinction is everything. He sets the rules. He determines what is just. And His plan is always good, even when we do not understand it. Not only is He a loving and kind God, but He is also infinitely just. This justice has implications for man. It was God who created the world and man “very good.” But man sinned against an infinite and holy God. The penalty for this sin was physical death. Because of man’s sin, all of creation became subject to death. Our bodies and the world around us die and groan as a reminder and a punishment for our rebellion before the Lord. Everything would be supremely hopeless, but for one important truth: Though the wages of our sin is death, the gift of God is eternal life through Christ Jesus. It took an infinite, perfect, and holy sacrifice to atone for our sin against an infinite, perfect, and holy God. Christ was that sacrifice. This means that all whom the Father calls, and who repent and believe in Christ, shall not perish but have eternal life.

    Thus, the question is not, “why did God allow the tragic death of these students,” but rather, “why does He allow any of us to live.” We deserve death. Every breath of life is a gift. It is only by His grace and mercy that we live and breathe and have our very being. He is our Creator and He is just to determine the beginning and the end of our existence. Beyond this, we must remember that even the tragedy of death is part of the eternal plan of God to bring glory to Himself. The fact that we do not understand the infinite purposes and counsels of the Triune God only means that we are creatures and need to trust Him. That is why He has given us His Holy Word. The Bible is the revealed mind of Christ for man. It reminds us that all things — including the murder of the innocent — work together for good to those that are the called of God. It cautions us to flee to God while we yet have life. It reminds us that the victory of Christ is greater than the grave itself. It warns us that without Christ there is no hope whatsoever. When we see the horror of death, we must be convicted of sin and flee to God. We must be emboldened in our sense of urgency to communicate to others the only source of hope from death. We must treasure the preciousness of life as God’s sacred gift, and we must wisely invest in meaningful Kingdom work this brief whisper of an opportunity called — our life.

    Second, we must acknowledge that the rise of community violence is a judgment of the Lord. Our nation has broken covenant with the God of our fathers. We have forsaken the law of God and have worshipped before false idols. We have sacrificed our children, not only spiritually and intellectually to the high priests of a new secular religion in our government schools, but have quite literally sacrificed baby boys and girls to the gods of convenience in the abortuaries of America. One out of four Americans is not here because they were aborted by their mothers.

    The modern trend toward school killings must be considered in terms of the hopelessness and evil which is being communicated to the children of this generation through the music culture, the entertainment culture, the sexual culture, and the intellectual culture of evolution and meaninglessness — all of which converge in modern schools. Our children are being taught the Gospel of evolution and man. It is a religious faith that ultimately teaches that transcendent truth does not exist and that life is meaningless, being the product of chance. Why are we surprised when the present generation acts upon the logical implications of this false gospel? If we do not see the connection between this false faith and the culture of death, we are blind bats, or willingly ignorant. The answer for us as a people is repentance and restitution, which begins by turning from our sins and reclaiming the ancient paths of the Lord wherein there is hope.

    Third, the worst response to school murders that our politicians could make would be to further disarm the American citizenry. The heavy death toll may in part be attributed to past legislation making it difficult for citizens to carry side arms. If even one of the students in that university had been armed, Cho Seung-hui could have been stopped. A strong case can be made that in a violent society like our own, it is the duty of every Christian man to be armed such that he is ready, willing, and able to come to the immediate aid of his neighbor in the face of the ruthless behavior of lawless men. We have one of two futures — a police state full of regulation and controls, where only the state and criminals have access to guns, thus leaving most women and children defenseless to evildoers, or an informed and well-armed population, which is, to my mind, the surest safeguard against lawless men.

    Fourth, every tragedy is an opportunity God gives to reflect glory and honor to Him. We give glory to Him as we reach out to others and lead them to the great Comforter. Now is the time for Christians to reach out in love to those who are in unimaginable pain, as well as those who are just shell-shocked by the horrible news. There is a time to mourn with those who mourn, and this is that time. Let us mourn, love, and encourage — and let us give God the glory in everything — even death.